“Today Will Be Worth It” by McKenzie Valdez
Adapt and Overcome… It’s undoubtedly easier said than done, but it’s unquestionably possible.
Our story is a journey of resilience, a tale well worth sharing. My husband and I have celebrated nearly 9 years of marriage. The day we got engaged was a hectic one. Overwhelmed and stressed at work, I was reassured by his words: “Today will be worth it.” Little did I know that later that evening, I would joyfully say yes to my amazing husband when he proposed.
Fast forward 9 years, and that quote, “Today will be worth it,” became a lifeline, saving me more than once and helping me navigate through some of life’s most challenging moments.
In early 2017, we received the heartbreaking news that having children naturally was not an option for us. Despite the crushing blow, we recognized alternative paths and adjusted our plans, determined to move forward.
We set goals, built a home, and saved money, all in preparation to expand our family. Come 2020, we initiated the emotionally taxing journey of in vitro fertilization (IVF). Enduring over 500 shots, 5 failed IVF transfer cycles, and the loss of 6 children, we found ourselves exhausted, emotionally drained, and grappling with grief, pain, heartache, and frustration. We felt like damaged goods, unsure where to begin rebuilding.
Yet, our mantra persisted: “Today will be worth it.”
Adapt we did, once again.
While the process was arduous, we understood the need to adapt to our new reality. Throughout this challenging journey, we experienced love, service, peace, hope, and happiness. Our faith provided strength, assuring us of the eternal nature of our family and the promise of reuniting with our children in the future. Family and friends became pillars of support, guiding us towards peace amid life’s unexpected detour. Currently we are on the path to becoming foster parents. We have found peace and a reason to keep living, and the strength to face each day.
Although most days are tough, we find solace in our Savior, moving forward with faith, trusting in the arrival of miracles and blessings.
If you find yourself amidst difficult days, remember you’re not alone. Seek out your glimmer moments – those small, simple joys. Trust that you’ll discover the path you’re meant to tread. Be willing to adapt and understand that overcoming life’s trials is a continuous work in progress. Miracles and happiness will come if you persist, adapting to life’s challenges, finding joy in the ordinary, and being open to changing plans.
Just keep moving, keep striving, keep adapting, and find those glimmer moments along the way. Remember, you’ve got this, and as my husband told me 9 years ago, “Today will be worth it.”
– McKenzie Valdez